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û¼Ò³âÀ» À§ÇÑ È¸º¹ 12 ´Ü°è (Teenager's 12 Step Guide)


1. û¼Ò³âµéÀÇ ¾Ë°í ½Í¾îÇÏ´Â ¿å±¸ (Kids want to learn)

1970 ³â´ëºÎÅÍ, ¾ËÄڿà ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀÇ 12´Ü°è ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» Àû¿ë ÇÏ´Â ¿©·¯ Áßµ¶È¸º¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ û¼Ò³âµéÀÇ È¸º¹Âü¿©°¡ Á¡Á¡ ´õ ¸¹¾ÆÁö±â ½ÃÀÛÇÏÀÚ, AA ȸº¹³»¿ëµµ À̵éÀ» À§Çؼ­ ¼öÁ¤ÀÌ ºÒ°¡ÇÇÇØÁ³À¸¸ç, ÀÌ Á¦´Â Áß °íµîÇб³ Çлý ÀÌ»óÀÇ Ã»¼Ò³âµéÀÌ ¼¼°èµµÃ³¿¡¼­ 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ ´ë°Å Âü ¿©ÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Â ½ÇÁ¤ÀÌ´Ù.

Starting in the 1970s, more and more teenagers began attending recovery meetings using AA 12 Step program, the makeup of AA changed. Now young people from junior and senior high school ages up are participating in the 12 Step recovery program throughout the world.

û¼Ò³âµéÀÌ Âü¿©Çϴ ȸº¹ ±â°üµéÀº ´ëºÎºÐ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹ ¿ø¸®¸¦ Àû¿ëÇÏ°í ÀÖÀ¸¸ç, À̵é û¼Ò³â Á¹¾÷»ýµéÀÌ ¾à¹° »ç¿ë, ¶Ç´Â Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ Áß´Ü°ú Áö¼ÓÀûÀΠȸº¹À» Çϱâ À§Çؼ­´Â, 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸®¿¡ µû¶ó¼­ °è¼Ó »ýÈ°ÇÏ°í ¼ºÀåÇØ¾ß ÇÑ´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë°Ô µÇ¾ú´Ù.

Many of these programs are based firmly on AA's 12 Steps, and the young graduates have come to know that their sobriety and their ongoing recovery depend on their continuing to live and grow with these principles.

¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î·ÈÀ» ¶§, »¡¸® ¼ºÀåÇؼ­ ´õ¿í Å©°í, º¸´Ù ½º¸¶Æ®ÇØ Á®¼­, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »î°ú Àλý¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¸¹Àº À̾߱⸦ ÇÏ°í ½Í¾î Çß´Ù. ÀÌ·¸°Ô ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ ´õ ¾Ë°í ½ÍÀº ¿å±¸ ¶§¹®¿¡, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ´Ã »õ·Î¿î Ä£±¸µéÀ» »ç±Í±â¸¦ ¿øÇß°í, »õ·Î¿î Àå¼Ò¿¡ °¡º¸°í ½Í¾ú°í, »õ·Î¿î ¼ºÃë°¨À¸·Î µé¶á »ýÈ°ÇßÀ¸¸ç, ¿ì¸®µéÀº Àå·¡°¡ ¹«Áö°³ ºû°ú ¸ðÇè½ÉÀ¸·Î¸¸ °¡µæ Âù °Í °°¾Æ ¸¶³É ¾Õ¸¸ ¹Ù¶óº¸±â¸¦ ÁÁ¾Æ Çß´Ù.

When we were little kids, we looked forward to growing up, getting bigger, getting smarter, having more to say about our lives and how we live. We want to learn. We were excited about new friends, new places, new accomplishments. We liked looking ahead because our tomorrows seemed to be full of rainbows and adventures.

¿ì¸®µé ÀÇ ¹«Áö°³ ºûÀÌ ¾î¶»°Ô µÇ¾ú³ª?

What happened to our rainbows?


  1. ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¿î¸íÀ» Àß ÅëÁ¦¸¦ ÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î »ý°¢ÇßÀ» ¶§¿¡, ÀÌ¹Ì ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »îÀº ¼Ó¼ö¹«Ã¥ÀÌ µÇ¾î¹ö·Á¼­, ½ÇÁ¦·Î Á¤»óÀûÀÎ »îÀ» »ì ¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾ú´Ù. »îÀÌ ÀÌÁö°æÀÌ µÇ±â±îÁö´Â ħ´ë¸¦ Á¦´ë·Î Á¤µ·ÇÏÁö ¸øÇß°í, ÁöºÒ°íÁö¼­µéÀ» Á¦¶§ ÁöºÒÇÏÁö ¾Ê¾ÒÀ¸¸ç, Çб³ °úÁ¦µéÀ» Á¦´ë·Î ¸øÇؼ­, ºÎ¸ð´ÔÀ̳ª ¼±»ý´Ôµé·ÎºÎÅÍ ±âºÐ ³ª»Û ²ÙÁö¶÷¸¸ µé¾î, ÁÖÀ§»ç¶÷µé°úÀÇ °ü°è¼ºµµ ÇູÇÏÁö ¸øÇß´Ù.

    Just when we thought we were gaining some control over our own destines, our lives got out of hand. In fact, they became unmanageable. To sum up the situation, our days were full of unmade beds, unpaid bills, undone school assignments, unpleasant confrontations, and unhappy relationships.

  2. ±×·¡¼­ ´ëºÎºÐ ¿Ü·Î¿üÀ¸¸ç, »ç¶÷µé°ú ÇÔ²² Áö³Â¾îµµ, ÀϺλç¶÷µé°ú °°ÀÌ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÀ̳ª, °¨Á¤À» º¯È­½ÃÄÑÁÖ´Â ÇàÀ§µé, ¶Ç´Â ±âºÐÀ» ´õ ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁØ´Ù°í »ý°¢µÇ´Â ¸¶¾à·ùµéÀ» ½ÃµµÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    And we were lonely a lot of the time, even in the middle of a crowd. We, like some others, had tried alcohol, other mood changing behaviors, drugs that made us feel better or we thought. We didn't always like the way we felt.

  3. º¸´Ù ±âºÐÀ» ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ÀϵéÀº, ¹«¾ð°¡ »õ·Î¿î °ÍÀ» Çغ¸°í, ¹«¾ð°¡ ¸ÚÁø ÀÏ·Î ½Ã°£À» º¸³»¸ç, Á» ¹ÌÄ£ µíÀÌ ½Ç·Ê¸¦ ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̾úÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÀûÀÎ ÇàÀ§µéÀÌ ±× ÇØ´äÀÎÁٷθ¸ »ý°¢Çß¾ú´Ù.

    Part of feeling better was having something new to do, something that would make us feel cool and in tune with our times, an excuse for being a little bit crazy. We thought drugs and addictive behaviors were the answer.

  4. ±âºÐÀ» ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ¶Ç ´Ù¸¥ ÀÏÀº È¥ÀÚ¼­ ¿Ü·Ó°Ô Áö³»Áö ¾Ê´Â ÀÏÀ̾úÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î´À ±×·ì¿¡ ¼Ò¼ÓµÇ±â¸¦ ¿øÇß°í, ¸¶Ä§ ±× ±×·ìÀº ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ´Â ±×·ìÀ̾, µ¿·áµé ¸ðµÎ°¡ ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ´Â °Í °°±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ¸é ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ´ú ¿Ü·Ó°Ô µÇ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î Âø°¢À» ÇßÀ» °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    Part of feeling better was not being lonely. We wanted to belong to a group, and maybe that group did drugs. We thought doing drugs would make us less lonely, especially since everybody seemed to be doing drug.

  5. ±Þ±â¾ß ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾à¹°À» °æÇèÇϱ⠽ÃÀÛÇؼ­, ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÇ¿ì°í, ºÎ¸ðÀÇ ¼ú Áø¿­Àå¿¡¼­ ¼úÀ» ¸ô·¡ ÈÉÃÆ°í, ³ªÀÌ ¸¹Àº ¾ÖµéÀ» ½ÃÄѼ­ ´ë½Å ¼úÀ» »ç¿À°Ô Çß¾ú´Ù. ºñ·Ï ¸¶¾à°ú Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µé·Î ½ÇÁ¦·Î ¹®Á¦°¡ µÇ¾î ÆäÀÎÀÌ µÇ¾î°¡´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë¸é¼­µµ, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¸Å·ÂÀÌ ÀÖ°í, ¹®Á¦µé·ÎºÎÅÍ ¾ÈÀüÇÒ °ÍÀ¸·Î¸¸ »ý°¢Çß¾ú´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀº Á¤¸» ³Ê¹«³ª Àþ¾ú°í, ³Ê¹«³ª Æò¹üÇؼ­, ³ª»Û Ä£±¸µé°ú ÇÔ²² ¾î¿ï¸± ¼ö¹Û¿¡ ¾ø¾ú´Ù.

    We started by experimenting, smoking dope, stealing liquor from our parent's cupboards, talking older kids into buying bottles for us. Although we'd seen burn-outs get into real trouble with drugs and addictive behaviors, we thought we were charmed, somehow immune to the problems. We were too young, too ordinary, too together to get hooked.

2. ¹®Á¦ ±×¸®°í ¹®Á¦µé (Problems build up) - 5 D's

¾à¹°»ç¿ë°ú Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µéÀÌ °¡¼ÓÈ­µÇ¸é¼­, Á¡Á¡ ´õ ´ÙÀ½¹ø ¼úÀÚ¸®³ª ±× ´ÙÀ½ ¾à¹°ÆÄƼ¸¦ ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ »ý°¢ÇÏ´Â ¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ¹ß°ßÇßÀ¸¸ç, ±×·²¼ö·Ï Ã¥ÀÓ°¨À̳ª Àΰ£°ü°è, ±×¸®°í ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ ¹Ì·¡¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¹«Áö°³ ºû ²ÞÀº ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ ÀÛ¾ÆÁö±â¸¸ Çß´Ù.

As our use of chemicals and addictive behaviors accelerated, we found we were thinking more and more about the next drink or next joint, and less and less about responsibilities, relationships, and those future rainbows.

Áý°ú Çб³»ýÈ°¿¡ ¹®Á¦°¡ °è¼Ó ½×À̱⠽ÃÀÛÇؼ­, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »îÀÌ ±Þ¼Óµµ·Î È¥µ·(ûèÔÇ) ¼ÓÀ¸·Î ¸»·Áµé¾î°¡´Â µ¥µµ, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ±×·± À§ÇèÇÑ »óȲÀ» °ÅÀÇ ¾Ë¾ÆÂ÷¸®Áö ¸øÇÑ´Ù. ³ªÁß¿¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã º´, ¾à¹°ÀÇÁ¸, ÀÎÅÍ³Ý °ÔÀÓ ¶Ç´Â µµ¹Ú°ú °°Àº Áßµ¶¿¡ ºüÁø °ÍÀ» ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖÀ» ¶§¿¡ °¡¼Å¾ß, °Ü¿ì Áö³­ »îÀ» µ¹¾Æº¼ ¼ö°¡ ÀÖ¾î, ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ÇØ¿Â »ý°¢°ú ÇàÀ§´Â ¾ÆÁÖ ÀüÇüÀûÀÎ °ÍµéÀÓÀ» ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖÀ¸¸ç, ºñ·Ï Á¤µµÀÇ Â÷ÀÌ´Â À־ ¿ì¸®µé ´ëºÎºÐÀº ¡°¾à¹° ÀÇÁ¸°ú Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ÀÇ 5 °¡Áö D¡°·Î °íÅëÀ» ´çÇØ¿ÔÀ½À» ¾Ë°Ô µÈ´Ù.

Mountains of problem began to pile up at home and at school. Our lives were spinning into chaos, and we hardly knew it. Later, when we learned more about disease of alcoholism, chemical dependency, the addiction like internet game or gamble, we could look back and see that our thoughts and behaviors were pretty typical. Most of us, in varying degrees, suffered from the drug dependency and ¡°addiction 5 D's¡±

1) °ÅºÎ¹ÝÀÀ (Denial)


¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â ±âŸ Áßµ¶ÀûÀÎ ÇàÀ§µé·Î ¹®Á¦°¡ µÇ¾î Àִµ¥µµ, À̸¦ ºÎÀÎÇϱ⸸ Çؼ­, ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô´Â ¾Æ¹«·± ¹®Á¦°¡ ¾ø°í, ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô ¹®Á¦°¡ ÀÖ´Ù´Â ½ÄÀ¸·Î ¸»ÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!

We denied we had a problem with alcohol, drugs, or other addictive behaviors. We weren't in any trouble - not us!

2) ¸Á»ó (Delusions)


¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î¶² »óȲÀ̳ª ´Ù Àß Ã³¸®ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖÀ» °ÍÀ¸·Î ¹Ï¾ú¾úÁö¸¸, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ±× ¾î¶² »óȲµµ Á¦´ë·Î ó¸®ÇÏÁö ¸øÇß¾ú´ø °ÍÀÌ »ç½ÇÀÌ°í, Áø½ÇÀÌ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÀڽŠ¾È¿¡ ÀÖ´Â ¹®Á¦¼º ¸Þ½ÃÁöµéÀ» ±Ø¼ÒÈ­ ½ÃÅ°´Â ¹Ù¶÷¿¡, ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¦´ë·Î Æò°¡Çϴµ¥ Áß½ÉÀ» ÀÒ¾î ¹ö·Á¼­, ¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ½ÇÆи¦ ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÀ̳ª ¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ ¶§¹®ÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó°í ¿ì±â¸ç ´Ù¸¥ °Íµé¸¸ ºñ³­ÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!

We believed we could handle any situation that came along. But the simple truth was that we weren't handling it very well. We minimized the messes we got ourselves into, and we were off base in our assessments of ourselves. We blamed everything but alcohol, drugs, and addictive behaviors for our screw-ups!

3) ±â¸¸ (Deceit)


¿ì¸®µéÀº °ÅÁþ¸»À» ¸¹ÀÌ Çß°í, °¡Á·°ú ¼±»ý´Ôµé ¸ð¸£°Ô ¾à¹°»ç¿ëÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ ÇàÀ§¸¦ °è¼Ó Çϱâ À§Çؼ­´Â À̾߱⸦ ºÎÇ®·Á¼­ º¯¸íÇؾ߸¸ Çß´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ¾à¹°À̳ª ±âŸ Áßµ¶À¸·Î ¹®Á¦°¡ º¹ÀâÇØÁú ¶§±îÁö, ½ÇÁ¦·Î ¿ì¸®µéÀº Á¤Á÷ÇÏ´Ù´Â ÀÚ¶û¸¸À» ´Ã¾î³õ¾Ò´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!

We lied a lot, made up elaborate stories to keep our chemicals using or addictive behaviors doing hidden from our families and our teachers. And up to the time when we got mixed up with drugs and addiction most of us were proud of being really honest!

4) Áö¿¬ (Delays)


¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§°¡ ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô ½½Ç ÀϵéÀ» ¾ß±âÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Ù´Â »ç½ÇÀ» ¾Ë°í ³ª¼­µµ, Áßµ¶¹®Á¦°¡ ¾ÆÁÖ ¾ÇÈ­µÉ ¶§±îÁö, ȸº¹µµ¿ò ¹Þ±â¸¦ ¸î ³¯ , ¸î ÁÖ, ¶Ç´Â ¸î ´Þ°£ Áö¿¬½ÃÄ×´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!

When we did begin to see that drugs or addictive behaviors were causing us grief, we put off getting help for days, weeks, or months until getting even worse!


5) ¹«°ü½ÉÇÑ Åµµ (Don't care attitudes)


Áßµ¶¹®Á¦°¡ ½É°¢ÇÏ°Ô ÁøÇàµÇ¾úÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â, ¼ÖÁ÷È÷ ¸»Çؼ­ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ´ÙÀ½¹ø ¾à¹°À̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ÇÑ, ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô ¹«½¼ ÀÏÀÌ ÀϾµç »ó°üÇÏÁö¸¦ ¾Ê¾Ò´Ù. ´Ù¸¸ ¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÅëÇÑ ÁÁÀº °¨Á¤Ãß±¸°¡ ¿ÀÁ÷ ¿ì¸® »î¿¡¼­ °¡Àå Áß¿äÇÑ ºÎºÐÀÌ µÇ¾ú´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

If the disease had progressed for enough, we honestly didn't care what happened to us as long as we could set up out next highs. The high from drugs or addictive behaviors became the most important part of our lives.

3. ȸº¹°ú HOPE ±ÛÀÚÀÇ ÀǹÌ(Recovery & HOPE letters)

  • ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¡°ÁÖüÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø´Â Ã浿½ÉÀ̳ª °­¹Ú°ü³ä¡±À¸·Î ¾îµÒ ¼Ó¿¡¼­¸¸ »ì¾Æ¿Í¼­, ȸº¹µ¹ÆÄ´Â º¸´Ù dz¿ä·Ó°í »õ·Î¿î »îÀ¸·Î ȸº¹¿©ÇàÀ» ½ÃÀÛÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̶ó°í ¸»ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù. ȸº¹À̶õ ÇÑ ¿©¸§ Ç®Àå¿¡¼­ ¼ö¿µÀ» ÇÏ°í ³ª¿Â ´ÙÀ½¿¡ ¶ß°Å¿î ÇÞºûÀ¸·Î ¸ö¿¡ ¹°±â°¡ ¸¶¸£´Â °Í°ú °°°í, Â÷°¡¿î ¹ã¹Ù¶÷ÀÌ ºÎ´Â ³ôÀº »êÀ» ¿À¸£´Ù°¡ ³¯ÀÌ ¹à¾ÆÁö¸é¼­ µûµíÇÑ ¹Ù¶÷À» ¸Â´Â °Í°ú °°¾Æ, ¸¶Ä¡ ±âºÐÀÌ ´Ù½Ã ÁÁ¾ÆÁö´Â ±× ¹«¾ù°ú °°´Ù°í ºñ±³ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î, Àü¿¡´Â ´À²¸º¸Áö ¸øÇÑ ÁÁÀº °¨Á¤ÀÌ ¹Ù·Î ȸº¹°¨Á¤ÀÎ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    When we have lived in the darkness of ¡°an unmanageable compulsion or obsession,¡± the breakthrough to recovery begins a journey to a new life far richer that can be told. Recovery is something like drying off in summer sunshine after a swim in a pool. Something like walking up in high mountain air as the chill of night warms into dawn. Something like feeling good again. Maybe feeling better than ever.

  • ȸº¹ÀÇ ÁÖÁ¦°¡ º¯È­ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌÁö¸¸, º¯È­ÇϱⰡ ±×¸® ½¬¿î ÀÏÀº ¾Æ´Ï´Ù. Àΰ£ÀÇ º»ÁúÀº ÀÌ¹Ì ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ÇØ ¿À´ø ÀϵéÀ» ±×´ë·Î °è¼Ó ÇÏ·Á´Â °æÇâÀ» º¸ÀÌ°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¯³ª ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ½ÇÁ¦·Î ÁøÁöÇÏ°Ô »îÀÇ ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¹Ù²Ù·Á°í ³ë·ÂÀ» ÇÑ´Ù¸é, ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è´Â ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô Èñ¸Á°ú ȸº¹À» °¡Á®´ÙÁØ´Ù. ±×·¯¹Ç·Î ȸº¹Àº »îÀ» µÇã´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇϸç, ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è ½ÇõÀº À̸¦ °¡´ÉÇÏ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    Change is the issue in the recovery and change is never easy. The great tendency in human nature is to go on doing what we're already doing. But if we are really serious about trying to change the way our life is going, there is hope and recovery for us in the 12 Steps. Therefore, recovery means the resumption of life made possible by practicing the 12 Steps.

  • ȸº¹Àº ±×°£ ´ç½Å »îÀÇ ÁúÀ» ¼Õ»ó½ÃÄÑ¿Â ¾à¹°, ÀÎÅÍ³Ý Ã浿, °­¹Ú°ü³ä, ºÒÇÕ¸®ÇÑ ÇàÀ§µéÀ» ¹ö·Á¹ö¸± ¶§¿¡ ºñ·Î¼Ò ½ÃÀ۵ȴÙ. ¶Ç ȸº¹Àº ³¡ÀÌ ¾øÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸® ¸ðµÎ´Â ȸº¹ Áß¿¡ ÀÖ´Â ¼ÀÀÌ´Ù. ¾ó¸¶³ª ¿À·§µ¿¾È ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è¸¦ ÇÏ¿´µçÁö °£¿¡, ¿ì¸®µé ¸ðµÎ´Â ȸº¹°úÁ¤ Áß°£ ¾îµð¿£°¡ ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    Recovery begins when you let go of the chemical substance, internet impulsion, obsessions, irrational behaviors that have damaged the quality of your life. Recovery never ends - we are all recovering people. No matter how long we've worked the Steps, we are all somewhere in the process of recovery.
12 ´Ü°è¿Í ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ (12 Steps & Recovery program)

  • 12´Ü°è´Â 70¿© ³â Àü ¾ËÄÚ¿Ãȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Ã¢½ÃÀڵ鿡 ÀÇÇؼ­ óÀ½ ¸¸µé¾îÁø 12°¡Áö ȸº¹¿ø¸®µé·Î, ±× ÀÌÈÄ ÀÌ È¸º¹¿ø¸®´Â ¸ðµç ´Ù¸¥ ÀÚÁ¶ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓµéÀÌ Ã¤ÅÃÇÏ¿© ¿Í¼­, ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è´Â ¿©·¯ºÐÀÌ µû¶ó¼­ Çϱ⸸ Çϸé ȸº¹µÉ ¼ö Àִ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÇ ¡°±âº»ÀûÀÎ µµ±¸¡± ÀÌ´Ù.

    12 Steps are twelve principles of recovery originated more than seventy years ago by the founders of Alcoholic Anonymous. Since then these principles have been adapted by all other self-help programs. The Steps are ¡°the basic tools" of the recovery program which work if you work them.

  • ¹Ý¸é ¡°È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¡±À̶õ ±¸Ã¼ÀûÀÌ°í ½ÇÁ¦ÀûÀÎ ¼ºÀå°ú ȸº¹°èȹ¿¡ »ç¿ëµÇ´Â Áý¾àÀûÀÎ ´Ü¾î·Î, 12´Ü°è ȸº¹±×·ì¿¡ Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ±×µéÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýÈ°¿¡¼­ ȸº¹¿ø¸®¸¦ µû¶ó¼­ ÇൿÀ¸·Î ½ÇõÀ» ÀÌÇàÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ´ç½ÅÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» µû¶ó¼­ Çϱ⸸ ÇÏ¸é ´ç½ÅÀÇ »îÀº º¯È­µÉ °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ ÀÇÁ¸ÇÏ¸é º¯È­µÈ´Ù´Â ¸»Àº, ½ÇÁ¦·Î ´ç½ÅÀÌ º¯È­µÉ °ÍÀ̱⠶§¹®ÀÌ´Ù.

    ¡°The Program¡± is a collective word, used to refer to the specific, practical plan of growth and recovery, the combination of principles and behaviors practiced by members of 12 Step recovery groups in their daily lives. Your life will change if you work the program. Depend on it. And the reason it will change is that you will be making the changes.
¡°HOPE¡± ´Ü¾îÀÇ ±ÛÀÚ Àû¿ë (Each letter in the word "HOPE")

  • H - Honesty - Á¤Á÷ÇÏÀÚ!

    ´ç½ÅÀÌ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ »î¿¡ ´ëÇؼ­ Á¤Á÷ÇÏÁö ¾Ê´Â ÇÑ, »îÀ» ¿Ã¹Ù·Î »ì¾Æ°¥ ¼ö ¾ø´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÀÚÁÖ ½ÇÁ¦ »î¿¡ °¡¸éÀ» ¾º¿ì·Á°í¸¸ ³ë·ÂÇÏ¿© ¿Ô´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¯ÇÑ °¡ÀåÀ» ¡°¸Á»ó°ú °ÅºÎ¹ÝÀÀ¡±À̶ó°í ÇÑ´Ù. ¹Ù·Î ÀÌ·± °ÍµéÀÌ ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ º´À¸·Î, Çö½Ç¿¡ ´ëÇؼ­ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¶·ÕÇϸç, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ´ç¿¬È÷ ÇØ¾ß ÇÒ ÀϵéÀ» ¸øÇÏ°Ô ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ¼ÓÀÎ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    you can't put your life in order unless you're willing to be honest about it. And the truth is that we have often tried to mask the reality of our lives. Such mask-making is called "delusion & denial." This is what our sickness is all about - kidding ourselves about what is real, and then lying to ourselves about what we can do about it.

    ¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹À» ½ÃÀÛÇÑ »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô, ¿ÀÁ÷ ±â²¨ÀÌ Á¤Á÷ÇØÁö·Á´Â ¸¶À½À» °®´Â °ÍÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù´Â ¸»µéÀ» ÇÑ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ½º½º·Î ¸¶À½À» ¿­°í ȸº¹À» ¹Þ¾Æµå¸®Áö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ È¸º¹¿©ÇàÀº ½ÃÀÛµµ Çϱâ Àü¿¡ ½ÇÆÐÇϰųª, ½ÇÁ¦·Î Á¦´ë·Î ÁÁÀº »îÀ» »ì¾Æº¸Áöµµ ¸øÇÏ°í Á×°Ô µÉ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    For the starters, we need only be willing to learn to become honest. Until we are willing, our recovery journey is over before it has begun. Or we may die before we have ever really lived.

  • O - Openness - ¸¶À½À» ¿­ÀÚ!

    ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è¸¦ ½ÃÀÛÇÏ°Ô µÇ¸é¼­, ¿©·¯ °¡Áö »õ·Î¿î ¾ÆÀ̵ð¾îµéÀÌ ¶°¿À¸£°ÚÁö¸¸, ¡°»õ·Î¿î ÀÏÀº Ç×»ó Èûµé¡±°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ Áßµ¶Áõ¿¡¼­ ȸº¹µÇ±â°¡ ¾î·Á¿î °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è¸¦ Çϸ鼭 ¶§·Î´Â ºÐ³ë½É°ú ÁÂÀý°¨À» ÀºÆóÇؾßÇÏ´Â µÎ·Á¿ò ¶§¹®¿¡ »õ·Î¿î ÀÏÀ» ÇϱⰡ ³Ê¹« µÎ·Á¿ï ¼öµµ ÀÖ´Ù.

    In starting off on the 12 Steps, you will come across many new ideas. "New things are always hard." That's why it can be so hard to get going. Sometimes we are so afraid of the newness of the 12 Step program that we cover up the fear with anger and frustration.

    ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è ÇÁ·Î±×·¥Àº ±×°£ ¼ö¹é¸¸ ¸íÀÇ »ç¶÷µéÀ» ±×µéÀÇ »î ¼Ó¿¡¼­ °íÅëÀ» µó°í ÀϾ°Ô ÇßÀ¸¸ç, µÎ·Æ±â¸¸ Çß´ø ¸¶À½¿¡ Æò¿ÂÀ» ã°Ô ÇØ ÁÖ¾ú´Ù. ¹®Á¦ÀÇ ¿äÁö´Â ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÌ Àß Àû¿ëµÇ´À³Ä°¡ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» Àß ÀÌÇàÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´À³Ä ÀÏ °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ÀÚü´Â ¿ì¸®µéÀ» ½ÃÇèÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸ç - ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ½ÃÇèÀ» °¡ÇÏ´Â ÃøÀº ¿ì¸®µé ÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ºñ·Ï »õ·Î¿î ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ Áï°¢ Æí¾ÈÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾îµµ, ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÌ Á¦½ÃÇÏ´Â µ¥·Î ¸¶À½À» ¿©´Â °ÍÀÌ Àý´ëÀûÀ¸·Î ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù.

    With the 12 Steps program, so many million of people have kicked the pain out of their lives and replaced it with serenity to ever doubt it. The question is not whether the program works, but whether we will work the program. The recovery program isn't on trial - we are. So openness to what is being suggested, even though it is new and therefore not immediately comfortable, is absolutely necessary.

  • P - Patience - Àγ»½ÉÀ» °®ÀÚ!

    ¾ÆÁÖ Å« ÀºÇ೪¹«°¡ 1 ´ÞÀ̳ª 1³â ¾È¿¡ ±×·¸°Ô Å©°Ô ÀÚ¶õ °ÍÀÌ ¾Æ´Ñ °Íó·³, ¿ì¸®µéµµ ¿ì¸® ½Ä´ë·Î, »ý°¢ ³»Å°´Â ´ë·Î, °¨Á¤ÀÌ ÀÌ´Â µ¥·Î, ÇൿÇÏ°í ½ÍÀº ´ë·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »îÀ» »ì¾Æ¿Â °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    A giant ginkgo tree didn't get the way in a month or a year. And we have spent all our lives being the way we are, thinking the way we do, feeling as we do, acting as we do.

    º¯È­µÇ·Á¸é Ç×»ó ½Ã°£ÀÌ °É¸®°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀ̹ǷÎ, ¿ì¸®µéµµ ȸº¹ ¼ºÀå¿¡ ¹«Ã´ Àγ»ÇØ¾ß Çϸç, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ È¸º¹¸ñÀû¿¡ ´ëÇؼ­ ÁøÁöÇÒ ÇÊ¿ä°¡ ÀÖ´Ù. ¿¹¿Ü ¾øÀÌ ¿ì¸®µé ¸ðµÎ´Â ÈǸ¢ÇÑ »ç¶÷À̹ǷÎ, ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¿ì¸® Àڽſ¡°Ô ÇØ¿Â °Íº¸´Ù´Â ´õ ÁÁÀº °ÍÀ» ¸¶¶¥È÷ ´©¸± ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¾ß ÇÑ´Ù´Â »ç½ÇÀ» ¸ðµÎ ¾Ë¾Æ¾ß¸¸ ÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀº Àγ»ÇØ¾ß Çϸç - ¿ì¸®µéÀº Áö±Ý »ó´çÇÑ ³»Àû ½Î¿òÀ» ÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀÌ´Ù.

    Changes always takes time. We need to learn to be very patient with our growth and sincere about our purpose. Without exception, we must need to learn that we are good people, and that we deserve much better than we are giving ourselves. So be patient with ourself - we are fighting a considerable battle.

  • E - effort - ³ë·ÂÇսôÙ!

    ³ë·ÂÇÏÀÚ´Â ¸»Àº ½´ÆÛ¸Ç ¸ð¾ç ¶Ù¾î³­ ȸº¹´Þ¼ºÀ» À§Çؼ­ ¶¡À» ¿©·¯ ¹öŶ È긮¸é¼­ ³ë·ÂÇ϶ó´Â Àǹ̰¡ ¾Æ´Ï´Ù. ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡¼­, ¡°³ë·ÂÀ» Ç϶󡱴 Àǹ̴ ¡°±â²¨ÀÌ¡± Ç϶ó´Â ¸»ÀÌ´Ù. ±â²¨ÀÌ »õ·Î¿î »ç°í¸¦ ÇÏ°í, ÀÚ¹ßÀûÀ¸·Î ³ë·ÂÇÏ°í, ±ú´ÞÀº ¹Ù¸¦ ÇൿÀ¸·Î ¿Å±â´Â ¼Ö¼±¼ö¹üÀ» Çؾ߸¸ ÇÑ´Ù.

    Effort doesn't mean that you have to pour out buckets of sweat trying to accomplish a superhuman feat. In the recovery program, "to make an effort" means to be "wiling." Willing to think new thoughts, willing to try, willing to act.

    ºñ·Ï óÀ½¿¡´Â ȸº¹ÀÌ·ÐÀ» Àß ÀÌÇØÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø°Å³ª, óÀ½ºÎÅÍ µ¿ÀÇÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø¾îµµ, ±â²¨ÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» ½ÃµµÇغ¸·Á´Â ¸¶À½À» °¡Á®º¸µµ·Ï ÇØ¾ß ÇÑ´Ù. »ç½Ç ±â²¨ÀÌ ÇÏ·Á´Â ¸¶À½Àº ´Ù¸¥ °ÍÀ¸·Î ´ëÄ¡ µÉ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù. ¾Æ¹«¸® ÀܸӸ®¸¦ ±¼¸®°í, À¯´ÉÇÏ°í, Ȳ¼Ò°°ÀÌ ÈûÀÌ ¼¼µµ, ´ç½ÅÀÌ ±â²¨ÀÌ ³ë·ÂÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é, 12´Ü°è ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» Àß ÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù.

    Even if at first you didn't understand, even if at first you don't agree - be willing to the recovery program a try. The fact is that there is no substitute for willingness. Neither brains nor charm nor the strength of ox can get you anywhere in a 12 Step program if you aren't willing to make an effort.

    °ú°Å ½À°üÀ» ¾ø¾Ö±â°¡ ¹«Ã´ ¾î·Æ´Ù. °£È¤ °ú°Å ³ª»Û ½À°üµéÀº º¯ÀåµÈ ¸ð½ÀÀ¸·Î ÀÚ²Ù »ì¾Æ³²À¸·Á°í ³ë·ÂÇؼ­, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¡°³Ê¹« ÇǷΡ±ÇÑ °Í °°¾Æ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©ÇϱⰡ ½È°í, ¡°³Ê¹« ¹Ù»Û °Í¡±°°¾Æ¼­ ÈÄ¿øÀÚ¿¡°Ô ÀüÈ­¸¦ °É±â ½ÈÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â, ¿Ö ±×·± »ý°¢À» ÇÏ´ÂÁö ´ç½ÅÀÇ µ¿±â¸¦ »ìÆ캸¾Æ¾ß¸¸ ÇÑ´Ù. ÀÌ·² ¶§´Â ¾Æ¸¶ ¿¾³¯ ³ª»Û ½À°üµéÀÌ ¸¶À½¼Ó¿¡¼­ ´Ù½Ã »ì¾Æ³ª·Á°í ¸öºÎ¸²À» Ä¡°í ÀÖ´ÂÁöµµ ¸ð¸¦ ÀÏÀ̹ǷÎ, ¸¶À½¿¡ ³»Å°Áö ¾Ê¾Æµµ, ¸öÀ» ¿òÁ÷¿© ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©Çϵµ·Ï ÇØ¾ß ÁÁ´Ù. ÀÌ ¼¼»ó¿¡ ¾î´À °Íµµ ¡°°è¼Ó ³ë·Â¡±ÇÏ´Â µ¥´Â ´çÇÒ Àç°£ÀÌ ¾ø±â ¶§¹®ÀÌ´Ù.

    Old habits die hard - sometimes they try to stay alive by disguising themselves. So if you're "too tired" to get out to a meeting or "too busy" to give your sponsor a call, examine your motives. It may be that the old habit is fighting to stay alive. So learn to move your muscles, even when you don't feel like it, nothing pays off like "consistent effort."

    ´ç½ÅÀÇ Ãʱâȸº¹À» À§Çؼ­, Âü¿©Çϴ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ ¡°90ÀÏ µ¿¾È Á¤Á÷ÇÏ°Ô, ±â²¨¿î ¸¶À½À¸·Î, Àγ»½ÉÀ» °®°í ³ë·Â¡± ÇØ º¸¾Æ¶ó! ¸¸¾à ±×·¸°Ô ³ë·ÂÀ» ÇØ º¸¾Æµµ ȸº¹ÀÌ Àß µÇÁö ¾Ê´Â´Ù°í »ý°¢µÇ¸é - °ú°Å Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ °íÅëÀ¸·Î ´Ù½Ã µ¹¾Æ°¡°Å³ª ´Ù¸¥ ¹«¾ùÀΰ¡¸¦ ½ÃµµÇÏ°Ç, ±× °ÍÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ÀÚÀ¯Àǻ翡 ´Þ·Á ÀÖ´Ù.

    For your sake, give the recovery program ¡°an honest, open, patient try for 90 days!¡± If you decide then that the effort hasn't been worth it - you are free to take back your pain and try something else.

4. ȸº¹ Âü¿©¿Í ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è ³»¿ë (The 12 Steps)


Áßµ¶ÁõÀº ÁøÇ༺ Áúº´ (Addiction a progressive disease)


³ªÁß¿¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã Áßµ¶, ¾à¹°ÀÇÁ¸, ÀÎÅÍ³Ý Áßµ¶, ¶Ç´Â ´Ù¸¥ Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§°¡ ¸¸¼ºÀûÀÌ°í ÁøÇàÀûÀÎ º´À̶ó´Â »ç½ÇÀ» ¾Ë±â´Â ÇÏÁö¸¸, »óÅ°¡ ÁÁ¾ÆÁö±â º¸´Ù´Â ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ´õ¿í ¾ÇÈ­µÇ¾úÀ» °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ Áßµ¶¹®Á¦¸¦ Á¦¶§ ´ëóÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é »ý¸í±îÁö À§ÇèÇØÁö°Ô µÈ´Ù.

Later we learned, too, that the sickness of alcoholism, chemical dependency, internet addiction, or addictive behaviors is chronic and progressive. It doesn't get better it gets worse. If unchecked, it is fatal.

ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀÌ ÀÖ¾î ´Ù ÇàÀÌ´Ù(We are lucky to get in recovery meeting)


±×·¯³ª ¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹¿¡ Âü¼®Çؼ­ ´ÙÇàÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Âü¿©ÀÚ ´©±º°¡°¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¼úÀ» ¸¶½Ã°Å³ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÇÏÁö ¸øÇϵµ·Ï Àß µµ¿ÍÁÖ°í ÀÖÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©Çϸé ȸº¹¿¡ ÇÊ¿äÇÑ µµ¿òÀ» ¹ÞÀ» ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù´Â »ý°¢¸¸À» ÇÏ¸é µÈ´Ù.

But we are the lucky ones. Someone, or a group of people, cared enough to intervene in our drinking, drugging, doing addictive behaviors. We accepted the idea that we needed help in recovery meetings.

ÀÌÁ¦ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÇູÇÏ°í ¿Ã¹Ù·Î »ýÈ°À» ÇÏ°í ÀÖ¾î, °¡Á·µé°úµµ Àß Áö³»°í ÀÖ´Ù. ¶ÇÇÑ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÁÖÀ§ »ç¶÷µé°ú À§´ëÇÑ Èû°úµµ »õ·Î¿î °ü°è°¡ Çü¼ºµÇ¾úÀ½À» ¹ß°ßÇÏ¿´´Ù.

We're happier, now that we're straight. We're getting along better with our families. We have found new connections with other people and with a Higher Power.

¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô´Â Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ ¾øÀÌ »ýÈ°ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â °á½ÉÀ» Çϵµ·Ï Áö¿øÇØÁÖ´Â ÁÁÀº ȸº¹Ä£±¸µéÀÌ ÀÖ°í, ¿ì¸® ¶ÇÇÑ ±×µéÀÇ È¸º¹À» µ½°í ÀÖ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ Áßµ¶ÁõÀÇ ¼Ó¹Ú¿¡¼­ ÀÚÀ¯·Î¿ö Áö¸é¼­, »îÀ» ´Ù½Ã ÅëÁ¦ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ½Â¸®ÀÇ »îÀ» »ì¼ö ÀÖ°Ô µÇ¾î, »õ·Î¿î ¹«Áö°³ ²Þµµ °®°Ô µÇ¾ú´Ù.

We have good recovery friends who support our decisions to stay addiction free, as we support theirs. As we're winning our freedom from addiction, we're also winning back a measure of control over our lives. We're even catching sight of some new rainbows!

ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è ³»¿ë (The 12 Steps)


  • 1 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ¸¶¾à, ÀÎÅͳÝ, ¶Ç´Â ±âŸ Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µé¿¡ ¹«±â·ÂÇßÀ¸¸ç ¿ì¸® »ýÈ°À» Á¤»óÀûÀ¸·Î ÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø°Ô µÇ¾úÀ½À» ±ú´Ý°í ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, drugs, internet, or addictive behaviors that our lives had become unmanageable.

  • 2 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â ¿ì¸®º¸´Ù ´õ À§´ëÇÑ ÈûÀÌ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ »ý°¢°ú »ýÈ°À» Á¤»óÀûÀ¸·Î µ¹¾Æ¿À°Ô ÇØ ÁÖ½Ç ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù°í ¹Ï½À´Ï´Ù.
    Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

  • 3 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â ¿ì¸®°¡ ¹Ï´Â À§´ëÇÑ ÈûÀÇ º¸»ìÇǽɿ¡ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ÀÇÁö¿Í »îÀ» ¿ÏÀüÈ÷ ¸Ã±â±â·Î °á½ÉÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood Him.

  • 4 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â µÎ·Á¿ò ¾øÀÌ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ µµ´öÀû Àç°íÁ¶»ç¸¦ È®ÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

  • 5 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®ÀÇ À߸øµÈ »ç½ÇÀ» ¿ì¸® ÀڽŰú ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷¿¡°Ô ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

  • 6 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ¸ðµç ¼º°Ý»ó ¾àÁ¡µéÀ» ¾ø¾Ö ÁÖ½Ç ¸ðµç Áغñ°¡ µÇ¾ú½À´Ï´Ù.
    Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

  • 7 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â °âÇãÇÏ°Ô Çϳª´Ô²² ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ ºÎÁ·ÇÑ Á¡µéÀ» ¾ø¾Ö Áֽõµ·Ï °£Ã»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

  • 8 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®°¡ ÇÇÇظ¦ ÁØ ¸ðµç »ç¶÷µéÀÇ ¸í´ÜÀ» ÀÛ¼ºÇÏ¿© ±×µé ¸ðµÎ¿¡°Ô ±â²¨ÀÌ º¸»óÇϵµ·Ï ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

  • 9 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®°¡ Á÷Á¢ º¸»óÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ±×µé¿¡°Ô »óó¸¦ ÁÙ °æ¿ì¸¦ Á¦¿ÜÇÏ°í´Â °¡´ÉÇÑ ¾îµð¿¡¼­³ª Á÷Á¢ º¸»óÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

  • 10 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â °è¼Ó ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¡°ËÇØ ³ª¾Æ°¡¸ç À߸øÀÌ ÀÖ¾úÀ» ¶§´Â Áï½Ã ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

  • 11 ´Ü°è - ±âµµ¿Í ¸í»óÀ» ÅëÇÏ¿© ÀǽÄÀûÀ¸·Î ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾Æ´Â Çϳª´Ô°ú ´õ¿í °¡±î¿öÁöµµ·Ï Èû¾²¸ç, Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¶æÀ» ±ú´ÞÀ» ¼ö ÀÖ°í Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¶æÀ» ½ÇÇàÇÒ ´É·ÂÀ» ±¸ÇÏ´Â ±âµµ¸¦ ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

  • 12 ´Ü°è - ȸº¹ ´Ü°èµéÀÇ °á°ú·Î ¿µÀû°¢¼ºÀ» ÇÏ¿´À¸¹Ç·Î, ´Ù¸¥ Áßµ¶Àڵ鿡°Ô ÀÌ È¸º¹ ¿øÄ¢À» ÀüÇϵµ·Ï ³ë·ÂÇϸç, ¿ì¸® »îÀÇ ¸ðµç ¿µ¿ª¿¡¼­ ÀÌ ¸ðµç ¿øÄ¢À» ½ÇõÇϵµ·Ï ³ë·ÂÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
    Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other addicts and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

°è¼ÓÇؼ­ .... ´ÙÀ½ ȸº¹´Ü°èµéÀ» º¸½Ã±â ¹Ù¶ø´Ï´Ù!
(please keep working for the following Steps)

2. ȸº¹ 1-3 ´Ü°è - ½Å³ä°»½Å ´Ü°è (Belief Steps)
3. ȸº¹ 4-9 ´Ü°è - Çൿº¯È­ ´Ü°è (Action Steps)
4. ȸº¹ 10-12 ´Ü°è - ȸº¹À¯Áö ´Ü°è (Maintenance Steps)

5. 12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ë¾î (12 Steps recovery glossaries)

  • ȸº¹±×·ì(Recovery group)

    ´ç½ÅÀÇ È¸º¹±×·ìÀ̶õ, ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸ÅÁÖ °°Àº ¿äÀÏ È¸º¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Á¤±âÀûÀ¸·Î Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â ³²³à ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀÇ È¸ÇÕÀ» ¸»ÇÑ´Ù. µ¿·á ¸ðÀÓÂü¿©¸â¹öµéÀÌ ´ç½Å°ú ÇÔ²² ȸº¹À» ³ª´©´Â °Í°ú °°ÀÌ, ´ç½Åµµ ±×µé°ú ³ª´©¸ç, Áö¼ÓÀûÀ¸·Î ¸¸³ª¼­, ±×µé°ú ¼­·Î¸¦ Àß ¾Ë°Ô µÈ´Ù.

    Your group is the fellowship of men and women who regularly attend the same weekly meeting that you do. As your fellow members share with you, and you with them, on a continuing basis, you come to know each other very well.

    ºñ·Ï ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸ðµç ±×·ì¸â¹öµéÀ» ÁÁ¾ÆÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ» Áö¶óµµ, ´ç½ÅÀº ´Ù¸¥ ¾îµð¿¡¼­µµ ã¾Æº¼ ¼ö ¾ø¾ú´ø ½Å·Ú½É °á¼Ó, Á¸°æ½É, ÇÔ²² ³ª´©°í ½ÍÀº ¸ñÀû µîÀ» ¹ß°ßÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.

    While you may not like all group members, you will find a bonding of trust, respect, and shared purpose that can be found nowhere else.

    ÇÑ È¸º¹±×·ì¿¡ Áö¼ÓÀûÀ¸·Î Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» Ȩ ±×·ì ¶Ç´Â Ȩ ¹ÌÆà À̶ó°í ¸»Çϸç, ÀÌ ±×·ìÀÌ¾ß ¸»·Î ¸ðµç ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ¿¡°Ô´Â ¹°·Ð óÀ½ Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷¿¡°Ô °­·ÂÇÑ È¸º¹Ã¼Çè°ú Èû ±×¸®°í Èñ¸ÁÀ» ½É¾î ÁØ´Ù.

    Consistent affiliation with such a group, called a home group or home meeting, is a powerful source of experience, strength, and hope to the new member as indeed to all members.

  • ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ(Recovery meeting)

    »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ¼­·ÎÀÇ È¸º¹Áö¿øÀ» À§Çؼ­ Á¤±âÀûÀ¸·Î ½ºÄÉÁÙÀ» ¸ÂÃß¾î ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ¡°12´Ü°è ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¡± À̶ó°í ĪÇÑ´Ù. ¼­·Î ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ¿ø¸®µéÀ» ÅäÀÇÇϸ鼭 ±×µéÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýÈ°¿¡ Àû¿ëÇÏ´Â ÀÏÀº ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµé·Î ÇÏ¿©±Ý »óÈ£ ¾öû³­ ȸº¹µµ¿òÀÌ µÉ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.

    A regularly scheduled gathering of program people who meet to support each other's recovery is called a "12 Step Meeting." By discussing the principles of the Program as these principles apply to their daily lives, members are able to be of enormous help to one another.

    Á¤Á÷ÇÏ°Ô ¸¶À½À» ¿­°í ¼­·Î¸¦ ³ª´©´Â ÀÏÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀÇ ÁÖ Æ÷ÀÎÆ®ÀÌ°í ¸ñÀûÀÌ´Ù. ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÇ Ã¼ÇèÀ» °æûÇÏ°í, ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ °æÇèÀû »ç½ÇÀ» ¼ÖÁ÷È÷ ¹àÈûÀ¸·Î ¼­ ¾çÂÊ ¸ðµÎ°¡ ½ÇÁ¦·Î ȸº¹¼ºÀåÀ» ÇÏ°Ô µÈ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Âü¿©¸¸ÀÌ Áß¿äÇÑ È¸º¹ÀÇ °ü°ÇÀ̸ç, ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©ÇÑ ¸¸Å­ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡¼­ ¾ò¾î°£´Ù´Â ³í¸®´Â ±×¸® ³î¶ó¿î ÀÏÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï´Ù.

    Honest and open sharing is the whole point and purpose of a meeting. There is real growth in both learning from the experience of others, listening closely, and in revealing the truth of your own experience, speaking openly. Participation is the key. Not surprisingly, people tend to get out of meetings just about as much as they put into them.

  • 12°¡Áö ÀüÅë (Tradition)

    12°¡Áö ÀüÅëÀ̶õ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀ» °¡Àå È¿°úÀûÀÌ°í À¯ÀÍÇÏ°Ô ¿î¿µÇϱâ À§ÇÑ 12 °¡ÁöÀÇ °£´Ü¸í·áÇÑ ÁöħµéÀ» ¸»ÇÑ´Ù. ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è°¡ ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ °¢ °³ÀÎÀ» À§ÇÑ ¡°È¸º¹µµ±¸¡± ¶ó¸é, 12 °¡Áö ÀüÅëÀº ȸº¹±×·ìÀ» À§ÇÑ ¡°¿î¿µµµ±¸¡± ¶ó°í ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.

    12 simple guidelines for the most effective and beneficial operation of a group. As the 12 Steps are "tool" for the individual, the traditions are tools of the group.

  • 12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸® ÀüÆÄ (Twelfth Step call)

    À̴ ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ Âü¿©ÀÚ°¡, ȸº¹µµ¿òÀÌ µÉ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» ¼Ò°³Çϰųª ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ 12´Ü°è ÀÌÇà°ú ȸº¹ºÀ»ç¸¦ À§Çؼ­ ±×µéÀ» ¹æ¹®ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸»Çϸç, 12´Ü°è ¹æ¹®À̳ª 12´Ü°è ÀÌÇàÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ÀÎÅͳÝ, ¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â À½½ÄÁßµ¶ÀÚ¿¡°Ô ȸº¹¸Þ½ÃÁö¸¦ ÀüÇØÁָ鼭 À̵éÀ» ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀ¸·Î ³ª¿À°Ô ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̳ª, ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ÀÌÇà¿¡ ¾î·Á¿òÀ» °Þ°í ÀÖ´Â ±âÁ¸ ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ¸¦ µ½´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ 12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸® ÀüÆĴ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ Âü¿©ÀÚµé·Î ÇÏ¿©±Ý ±×µé ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ È¸º¹À¯Áö¿Í Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ Áß´Ü¿¡ µµ¿òÀÌ µÇ±âµµ ÇÑ´Ù.

    A visit by a 12 Step program member to introduce or further explain the Program to someone who could find help through it. Making a 12 Step call, or 12 Stepping, may mean carrying the Program's message to a practicing alcoholic, internet, drug, or compulsive overeater, inviting a newcomer to a meeting, or helping a person who is having trouble working the Program. 12 Stepping helps Program members maintain their own sobriety or abstinence.

  • ½½·Î°Ç (Slogans)

    ½½·Î°ÇÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀÌ ±×µé ÀڽŰú ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµé °£¿¡ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» È¿°úÀûÀ¸·Î ¼öÇàÇϱâÀ§Çؼ­ ½ÃÀÛÇÏ¿´°Å³ª »ç¿ëÇØ¿Â ¸», ¸ðÅä, »ó±â¾îµéÀ» ¼öÁýÇÑ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.¿¹¸¦ µé¸é ¡°¸Å»ç¸¦ ½±°Ô Çض󡱴 ½½·Î°ÇÀº ȸº¹ÀÚµéÀÌ ±× Àǹ̸¦ »¡¸® ¾Ë¾ÆÂ÷¸± ¼ö ÀÖ´Â Àǹ̽ÉÀåÇÑ »ó±â¾î ÀÌ´Ù.

    A collection of sayings, watchwords, and reminders originated and used by recovery group members to assist themselves and each other in "working" an effective Program. "Easy does it" is an example of one of these quick and meaningful reminders.

  • ÈÄ¿øÀÚ (Sponsorship)

    ÈÄ¿øÁ¦µµ´Â ¿À·£ ±â°£ ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥°ú 12 ´Ü°è¸¦ Çؿ ȸº¹ÀÚ À̰ųª ÈÄ¿øÀÚ·Î, À̵é·Î ÇÏ¿©±Ý »õ·Î¿î ȸº¹Âü¿©Àڵ鿡°Ô ȸº¹¾È³» ºÀ»ç¸¦ ÇÏ°ÔÇÏ´Â °èȹÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼­ ÈÄ¿øÀڴ ģ±¸, ºñ¹ÐÀ̳ª ¹®Á¦¸¦ ÅÐ¾î ³õ¾Æµµ µÉ »ç¶÷, °¢ ȸº¹´Ü°è¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Çؼ³ÀÚ, »õ·Î ȸº¹¿¡ ³ª¿Â Áßµ¶ÀÚ³ª ±×ÀÇ °¡Á·µéÀ» À§ÇÑ ÈǸ¢ÇÑ È¸º¹ÀÚ¿ø ¿ªÇÒ µîÀ» ÇÏ°Ô µÈ´Ù.

    A plan whereby members who have been in the Program and working the Steps for a longer time serve as guides, or sponsors, for newer members. A sponsor is a friend, a confidant, an interpreter of the Steps, and a resource for the newcomer to the Program and his or her family.



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